Abusers and their insecurities

Many people need to read this especially the “He already has” quote at the end…

Living with Depression

Domestic_Abuse_Generic_big_story_650

I have escaped an emotionally and physically abusive relationship nearly 3 years ago but I still receive abusive messages now and then to this day.

It took me a very long time to overcome the emotional damage and to finally realize that the problem wasn’t me after all… it was the abuser.

At the very beginning abusers come across as the most carrying and kindest people in the world.

They will always listen to you and support you no matter what until you are “deep enough” for the abuse to start.

Once you have felt the unconditional love, 24/7 support and a non-stop attention you are more than likely to want to give the same in return.

And that’s key (well one of them) to a successful relationship once both parties are participating in a relationship.

But what is different about an abusive relationship is that suddenly your unconditional love 

View original post 913 more words

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s